Photo: D.H. Lawrence and Frieda, Mexico
"The English Are So Nice" by D.H. Lawrence
The English are so nice so awfully nice they are the nicest people in the world.
And what's more, they're very nice about being nice about your being nice as well!If you're not nice they soon make you feel it.
Americans and French and Germans and so on they're all very well but they're not really nice, you know.They're not nice in our sense of the word, are they now?
That's why one doesn't have to take them seriously. We must be nice to them, of course, of course, naturally. But it doesn't really matter what you say to them, they don't really understand you can just say anything to them: be nice, you know, just nice but you must never take them seriously, they wouldn't understand, just be nice, you know! Oh, fairly nice, not too nice of course, they take advantage but nice enough, just nice enough to let them feel they're not quite as nice as they might be.
I love this poem. I was flipping through the Norton Anthology and came upon this jaunty little poem by Lawrence. He is of course making fun of the English and their oh so nice ways. Lawrence thinks the English are pretentious snobs who believe their form of nice is so much nicer than the niceness of the Americans, French, and Germans. Lawrence thinks the English consider the Americans, Germans, and French to be crude, ignorant and insensitive. Lawrence says be nice to these people, but only nice enough to let them know we think they are buffoons.
s hamilton